In a Nutshell

  • The family, like the church, is a community. The family is called the "domestic church" in church documents.

  • A sense of belonging, a willingness to forgive and forget hurts, common memories and traditions, and an appreciation for the interesting and colorful differences among family members: These make for a vibrant community.

  • Love -- giving and receiving it -- is what makes any community strong.


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  •  Food for Thought
     
    What's the secret of family life?

    That's a hard question to answer, since all families are different. Certain kinds of activities together that strengthen one family as a community might be all wrong in another family.

    I suspect that in families that are strong communities, however, the family is considered a priority by its members. Furthermore, someone in that family -- a parent; a child; perhaps more than one family member -- has ways of reminding the others of this priority and finds ways for the family to spend time together and do things together.

    I don't know of a written recipe for families to follow when they sense that their home life needs attention -- that they could do better as a family. Probably they have to create their own recipe of respect, love and common action.

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    The kind of community the family is

    By H. Richard McCord

    Catholic News Service

    It must have been a touching moment. Pope Benedict XVI was about to baptize 10 babies in January 2006. He laid aside the prepared text of his homily and spoke spontaneously to the assembled families about the sacrament. He said:

    "Through baptism each child is inserted into a gathering of friends... . This family of God ... will always accompany him, even on days of suffering and in life's dark nights. It will give him friendship, it will give him life. And these totally trustworthy companions will never disappear."

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    Five ways to build the family as a community

    By Mary Jo Pedersen

    Catholic News Service

    I have five suggestions for families who want to foster a spirit of community at home.

    My suggestions respond to this question: How can households become "intimate communities of love and life" (Vatican II, "Pastoral Constitution on the Church in the Modern World," No. 48) when they are so busy they don't have time to work, play, eat or hang out together?

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    Talking points for families

    By Father David K. O'Rourke, OP

    Catholic News Service

    From the time I first knew them, Tom and Betty Varna (not their real names) were adventurous spirits. Both worked hard and were goal-oriented. But they also saw themselves as the centers of the family, and they worked together at giving their family a center.

    Tom kept things secure and orderly. Betty made peace and nursed wounded spirits. Both insisted that everyone be treated decently.

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     Faith in the Marketplace
     
    This Week's Discussion Point:

    What makes a family a family?

     
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